Thanks, all my dear friends--and 'Spaw, give my love to Karen: I know what it's like (in the last five years I lost my mother, her sister--my favorite aunt, and my older brother). And Jon, I read your heart-wrenching story and I'm glad you've come to this place where people are so willing to help each other with their burdens--and I appreciate your sharing mine.Love to you all, --seed