Yes, but Life is not controllable. Forums may be. This forum is a good training ground for Life, because it's basically pretty wide-open. That's not a threat, it's an opportunity for growth.

You find what you look for. Look for what pleases you, and don't worry about the rest. There will always be problems in Life. That does not mean we need a "moderator" to control it all so that we can remain in our little chosen comfort zones all the time. If we did, we would not learn much of anything.