Ya know, I'm sorry, but I never experienced that. I got politely answered the first time I asked for lyrics, even though the song was in the DT, and I hadn't found it there because the search tool was tricky.

I don't consider sweeping generalizations about bad qualities to have any merit, because I know in any population there are a small number of folks who can make everything look bad by their negative attitudes, and its a survival skill to see through that and recognize the actual experience behind the sweeping generality is often one or two interactions.

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