Saying 'He started it', or even 'A big boy done it and ran away' is not going to help. Bearing grudges never did and never will. We know who's to blame, and what for, but we have to play the cards we're dealt. We can't start from where we were, mainly because we missed the chance, we can only go from where we are now. It's the 'long memories' like Bloody Sunday, Warrenpoint, the killing of Lord Mountbatten etc, all the way back to the battle of the bloody Boyne, we must put it behind us.
Giok