well anyway if I offended anybody here , I'm sorry. You're quite right, whoever said it, its your own fault if you lose your temper.

Perhaps we all have to imagine the person's here that we are talking to. I'm sure most of us don't start rows with people who are guests in our own house.

Its all part of the trouble I guess - all this impersonal freedom and we're like nudists running through cyberspace throwing off social conventions and flaunting naked emotions. Feeling the wind between bits of thought and feeling that haven't seen the light of day in years.

all the best

Big Al