Precisely - "Maybe she was having a bad day." And maybe Maryrrf   was having a bad day too, and the two things clicked together.

That's why I didn't put in the name of the people I mentioned, whom I thought were acting pretty obnoxiously. I don't think I've the right to pass on that subjective judgement I made. More especially when we are dealing with people within the relatively small folk world, where word of mouth really can make a difference.