Seed Forgive me for bringing a note of levity into this serious threadbut the spelling you used for shanty (chantey) is Glaswegian slang for a "gezunder" called because it used to "goes under the bed" in other words a p**s pot!! so what kind of fix is this that you go for?. My wife just came in to see why I was laughing so hard!!
You, and Sally and all the others (on Kats Mudcat Healing Circle list) who need healing are in my thoughts and are the focus of the love and healing of many here,