I'm male. And I understand what you're saying completely. What I'm questioning is the concept that is 's only "ok" if the circumstances of conception are undesireable. Personally I don't think abortion is a good thing. Who does? But, and this is a BIG but, I really don't think the GOVERNMENT should tell women what they can do with their bodies. I beleive the woman should be able to decide for herself. To me, there's a hypocrisy in saying it's "ok" if we don't like the manner of conception. If oppositon to abortion is about the baby's right to live, what about "that" baby? Do you understand what I mean?