For reasons that will become obvious, I'm posting un named. I found out this morning that the person I thought was the love of my life, my soul mate, has been seeing someone behind my back. I am shattered. It all started innocently enough, chatting online, exchanging PM's, being helpful to this other person who is going through a marriage break up. Its turned into more than that and they have met. I don't know what to do, I just feel cold, upset and stunned.