You might have a point there Susan, but I am sure most of us don't do it intentionally. I think that is where the difference is.
There is a difference between somebody who does it with pleasure versus somebody who does it unintentionally.

I shouted at my daughter tonight because she was winding me up, and I was very tired. She was in tears. I didn't do it intentionally. I apologised and we cuddled and made up. It didn't mean that I didn't love her.

There is a difference. People who are judging Folkies are misguided interfering, uninformed about the traditions. Go find somebody who is really rascist and sort them out.

It makes my blood boil.