It just takes confidence, persistence, and a certain unscrupulous gift for manipulation, goodbar. It takes a really good act and lots of nerve. Learn how to fake sincerity and you are well on the way to a series of meaningless encounters with the opposite sex.

One of the most complete and total *ssholes I ever knew was constantly seducing women when he was in his late teens and early 20's (which was when I knew him). He wasn't good looking, he was short, and he was a slimy little jerk with the character of a toad...but...he was willing to say anything, do anything, spend lots of money, and basically go the extra mile to bed women...and it usually worked eventually. In fact, it very rarely didn't work...eventually. He was an amazingly persistent phony with absolutely no shame or scruples, and he tended to lose interest fast once he had "scored". I bet he is married now to some unfortunate woman who can't stand him. I did not envy him at the time, because, seriously, there was nothing there to envy.

Does this sound like what you are aspiring toward? :-)