Life is, as the old chinese curse would have it, interesting.

My kids' shrinks say a) they cannot document lack of being abused as they never asked the kids, and b) it takes a whole different thing to verify that they aren't abusers and they recommend not putting the children through it.

At least the new old sweetie isn't emailing me any more, and claims to have deleted my latest answer unread, so I don't have to get a new email address and all. Unless I should anyway?