This is a difficult situation for you, I know from my own experience, and you have my sympathy--some days it seems like soap opera, and some days, black comedy--If it is any consolation, in the end, no matter how dangerous and threatening they may seem, the vindicative and malicious ex whatevers always run out of steam--they have bills to pay and need to get back to business, just like everyone else--and it will all be quietly swallowed up in the system, and all parties will move on--Til that happens, though, it can be Hell--