Bobert, I feel your pain. I am the stay-at-home househusband with a cleaning lady who visits for 3 hours every two weeks.

I had to learn to 'tidy up' before her work visits.
It come down to putting away my musical toys and clothes, clearing the floors and counters so she can actually clean them.

I was reluctant to get this service, but I must admit my cleaning standards had been going downhill for several years, as my heart problems gradually worsened.(things are much better in that respect, with the help of several stents).

Now I like having the help of wonderful Angela. I don't even mind the pre-tidying! You'll feel the same way soon.

Rich