I would have to see what you're doing, or hear it in order to figure out what is going on--I just looked a your previous post on this, and realized that I probably misunderstood what you were talking about when I repsonded--unfortunately, I am still not really clear on what you were saying--What I thought that you meant (and it was late, and I was tired, I admit) is that when one plays, one should always follow the fingerings in the boxes, because the unplucked or unstrummed strings also sound and fill out the chord--
There are certainly lots of extra sounds that guitar makes, which, at least to me, makes guitar music much more interesting and offers more possibilities than any other--the thing is that all the variables make it much harder to talk about what what is happening when you play--