Maybe I am just a wimp but I find in Bodhran playing you follow. Try leading and you will find-out how it is recieved.

I sometimes play in the same session with the drummer I regard as the best folk drummer around - certainly in ceilidh bands. It does focus the mind somewhat even if he prefers to play his mouth-organ most of the time.

So what we need is a good line in tax collector / difference jokes.

Discuss.......