You've hit on one of my pet peeves. Cigarette smoke. I hate it. I've had to put up with it in night clubs and places that I had to play. I've developed a mild emphesema and I have never smoked.

I've observed that people who don't treat their bodies very well tend to treat the planet the same way. Count the amount of cigarette butts on the steps of the office buildings of any major city. In my personall experience the smokers I have known became desensitized to their surroundings and their unhealthy effect on others.

Pot is a total waste of time and does affect your mental capacity. It's as lethal as tobacco in it's own way. I've used pot and regret every time that I have. It has done me no good. It certainly didn't add to my music. And you can get a hangover from pot. Most potheads are pretty ridiculous to listen to in conversations.

Marion, there's nothing wrong about standards for finding a mate. Someone who abuses their body is a possible candidate for abusing you.

Frank