kat,If I'm needed, I'm here to help. Always tell me when some one needs a hand or a leg up in life. Its happened to me at times and I had friends and strangers come to my aid. How far a kind word goes when its not asked for but given freely still amazes me.
Some day the detractors may need a hand or a word and we'll still be here, even for them, and then they will understand.
Don