Hey, I was a good home handyman, very diligent, until I started doing it for a living. Now our house looks like a builders yard, and nothing gets done until it MUST be done. Ever seen a mechanic's car, a cobbler's barefoot children? What sort of job does the guy have?

As for the family thing, she should ask him if he wants to be the last of his line, or demand that he books in for a vasectomy.