Oh guest...I am a little confused about what the reforms of the Vatican II were...true, we have to be nice to Protestants now, and sing ugly songs..but we still aren't supposed to get divorced even in bad situations, still not supposed to use birth control in tragic situations. Still have a culture of celibacy that gets twisted into child abuse situations. So I personally would use the word reform lightly. He's a good guy, a decent man, and that is good enough for me. I remain confused about such issues as the Virgin Birth, but common decency does go a long way. mg