Kat
It's probably well known I'm no lover of the BS threads, but this is totally different. If a bunch of friends here on the cat can't call on each other to link prayers and thoughts to bring comfort to another being then the place wouldn't be worth having no matter how good the music. I have a copy of Mikal's father's prayer pinned to my music room wall and regard it as the most valued download I've ever made anywhere. (It's the one posted when Spaw was ill).
My thoughts and prayers are for you and your friends. May the love and peace of my God be with all of you.
Baz