Our thougths with you, Mikal.
Related question:
Sorry for bringing this to this thread, but I hesitate to open another thread. If I happen to disappear, how will anybody know about that ? Did the creators of the cyber communities know that some day, some remote place, someone who was a cyberfriend will die, and nobody will know, unless his/her relatives dig into the postings, and take the trouble to contact all people in the address books, etc.? There should be a program for reporting such natural and unavoidable events.
Yours, Andrés