The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #80418   Message #1466772
Posted By: GUEST,heric
20-Apr-05 - 10:59 PM
Thread Name: BS: Biblical Quotes Support 'Premarital Sex?
Subject: RE: BS: Biblical Quotes Support 'Premarital Sex?
Mom has not yet broached things with the boy's family (or anyone else - except the boy.) I'm glad the one week cooling off period is here.

The girl's dad flaked off about two years ago - another stressor. The girl's family doesn't go to any church. You are probably right about rule setting. I suspect the girl has been showered with gifts and extra leeway in a perhaps misguided attempt to compensate for the divorce.

(The girl, by the way, is stunningly beautiful, gets straight A's, and looks much older than she is.)

Even Ann Landers says (said) that once kids start there is no going back. Be that as it may, I think the only good result for her is to move forward and away from the young charlatan. Straightening him out would be a good deed indeed but probably well beyond our capabilities. That's where involving his pastor, judiciously, will probably remain part of the program.