Step one, and probably the most important step:
Take that stick outta yer butt.

Step two: recognize that the other (human) citizens of this Earth are your brothers and sisters, and that it is better for all individuals and more effective for societies for you to cooperate with them then try to dominate them.

Step three: After reading step two, you need to take that stick back outta your butt!

Step four: Recognize that we humans are citizens of this Earth just as are all the other species, and that we live interdependently. If one of us donimates another so successfully that we "win" we *all* lose.

Step five: After reading step four, you need to take that stick back outta your butt, again! (This time, try not to keep putting it back in!)

Step six: Where to continue beginning?!! You have so much of your world view so wrong.

No doubt, other Catters have their own steps...