Freda, my 2 cents--

How clearly do we read each other?

I'm not sure people try very hard most of the time. Most threads reflect this.

How clearly do we write/speak TO each other?

I'm not sure people try very hard most of the time. Most threads reflect this.

Doing it any differently requires relationship. Cyber or fleshly or a combination of both, real or imagined.

~Susan

PS for others-- Hey-- post your own damn opinion instead of disagreeing with mine, folks. I'm answering freda, not starting a lengthy schmooze.