Forgive me Liz, as I'm quite sure you've already made this clear to everyone and their aunt, but is your little feast on the same day as the handfasting?
I know that I haven't been following this thread closely enough, but it seems like it's turned into a three day event, and I'm a little confused as to what's happening when.

The only thing I actually thought to mark down on my calendar was to be at the Black Lion by 2pm-ish on Saturday May 14th.

Care to post an "Event Calendar" for us?

..xx..e