Good stories, and an encouragement to all of us. Just to balance things out, I'll add another result. Back in the 60's, I performed with another musician for several years. Musically, we were reflections of each other and the music flowed so naturally that it was a strong bond between us, even though we were very different. It was a good, positive, supportive friendship and I look back upon it with nothing but appreciation. When we both moved away, the friendship died from lack of communication. Many years later, we crossed paths again and got together. The music wasn't there any more, and even though in some ways, I liked the person more than I did when we were close friends, there wasn't enough of a connection to breathe life into the friendship. It turned out to be what I call a Crossroads Friendship. I've had several of them in my life, and am deeply appreciative for each one, even though the friendships are no longer alive. There are times in our lives when we are going through a major change, when we meet someone else who becomes important to us at that time. They may or may not be going through a major change, themselves. I had a wonderful, loving, supportive friendship with someone when I was going through my divorce, and really needed unflinching encouragement. My friend was facing the loss of his Father, and was struggling to deal with it, and I believe that I was a strength to him as well. When the divorce and the first couple of years following passed, and my friend's Father died and he was able to move on, the friendship faded. I think that we are both thankful for the support that we gave to each other, and have nothing but warm memories of those days. But, we've moved on, down different roads now.

Not all friendships are forever, or even should be. Sometimes, a friend is placed in our path when we really need them (or, they really need us.) Some friendships can't be rekindled. But, the good ones can always be remembered with thanksgiving.

Jerry