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Thread #81327 Message #1488396
Posted By: open mike
19-May-05 - 03:32 PM
Thread Name: BS: How does your culture do obituaries ?
Subject: RE: BS: How does your culture do obituaries ?
i agree with the obit as a genealogy tool as a genealogy researcher, i know it is important to know what COUNTY (in U.S.) the person was born and/or died in, as those vital recoeds are USUALLY kept in county recorder's office. In some states the vital statistics office is a state office, and those states do not often realize that other areas do this by counties. Graveyards and mortuaries are great sources of info, and some take that job very seriously and keep and share theese records. One cemetary (where my parents are buried) spoke of installing a kiosk with computer for using for family tree research. They had a form to fill out for next of kin to give information about the deseased, relatives, etc.
When my Uncle died, the family gathered at the hotel in preparation for the funeral borrowed the typewriter from teh front desk in order to compose the obit, and we gathered memroies and info from everyone in attendance, and it was a great ritual and good way to put down the facts of his life. We all remembered something different. We made a story about him longer than would be published for our own use and memories.
The newspaper that printed the obit for my dad saw the part about him working for the Army Corps of engineers (as a civilian) and printed a flag in front of his name as they do for military vets. Sort of a comical mistake...as he was not in the military, but was given a flag symbol any way.
We published the obits for my parents in the town where they lived for 40 years as well as the one where they were for the last 5 years, so people who knew them there would know.
The combination of a death certificate and an obit often contain many clues about family tree info. Due to identity theft, Death Certificates are getting more difficult to obtain. In Calif. you must prove that you are directly related before you can purchase one. It used to be easy to obtain this data online. This makes it difficult for researchers to help others by locating this information for them. I am in a group of volunteers called Random Acts of Genealogical Research...who will photograph gravestones, look up newspaper obits and death certificates as well as marriage and birth documents, too. I have had others do this for me in areas where my raltives have been born, married or died. In past years churches used to be the place where this info was kept. and in family bibles.