GGH, the problem is, he isn't going away whatever you do. There's a way to minimize the damage, and there's a way to make it worse. By the way, I understand your motives. I'm not offended or mad - I've just been tried the same approach before and am offering an opinion based on who I felt I was turning into when I wrote like that, and what effect it had. Made things worse.

(Jeri, who promises to now shut up on the subject.)