You're right... good to see you in here. Maturity also has a lot to do with giving. Makes me think of the first two lines of a song the Messengers do: "Have I given anything today? Have I helped some needy soul on my way?" Maturity is recognizing that we are all connected (whether we particularly like it or not.)
I do appreciate that Martin is being quite restrained on this thread. This is prime real estate for devolving into another interchange of obscenities and cage rattling. Too many threads on here become an endless interchange of, Oh yeah! you're stupid!