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Thread #81610   Message #1496014
Posted By: freda underhill
30-May-05 - 08:24 AM
Thread Name: BS: Why Are Threads Gettin' Highjacked???
Subject: RE: BS: Why Are Threads Gettin' Highjacked???
Guest: 08:02 AM

re your comments about the forum owner, the forum administrator, and the forum clones.

The people who continually obsess about those running this forum have one problem and that is the need to control. fundamentally, you just can't accept that someone else is control, and that that someone is not you. whatever they do will never be acceptable to you, because you want to be king pin.

instant of constantly analysing what they do, and speculating and ranting about it, why not consider your own need to be in control. ask yourself why it bothers you so much that you are not in control, and why you are so hypersensitive to other's decisions that seem to have so much effect on you. these decisions are like a garbage man's decisions, they are about cleaning up, tidying away a lot of muck. why is that a problem?