Well I see some very valid points here and will take the advice offered.
It is time for me to do what has been suggested and not rise to the bait and respond.
In my book now..ANY posts that disrupt or provoke will now be ignored.
It is good advice and while hard to apply, I will now do so...
I like here too much to see the Mudcat get flushed down a verbal tiolet.
Guilty of responding before...and I, for one, do not wish to be part of the Problem anymore.
With my decision made, a sense of relief comes with it.
I am not dreading coming into a Forum that I truly appreciate and find myself embarking on a roller coaster ride of emotions.
Normal service has now been restored at least at my end, I can only speak for myself.
FWIW, I am sorry that I myself rose to the bait in the past and in doing so encouraged this to go much longer than it should have.
As Boberts Says.."One day at a Time":>)

Jude