I found a lovely tune called "Amanda" (but without lyrics) on a website http://home.wanadoo.nl/bruch/ (It appears under "Lullaby and Sad Songs" and I think at least 1 other category).
When searching Mudcat for "Amanda" I found the following (though there is no date, etc or reference to a thread) from someone called JN; are these the correct (and complete) lyrics for the tune on the above website (you need to listen to it to find out), or is it something else altogether? Does anyone know when the song was written or anything about Bob McDill (I have of course heard of Waylon Jennings, who I think only died in the last few years; didn't he do the theme tune, etc, for the Dukes of Hazzard?).
AMANDA (Bob McDill)
I've held it all inward, the Lord knows I've tried It's an awful awakening in a country boy's life To look in the mirror in total surprise At the hair on your shoulders and the age in your eyes
Amanda, light of my life, fate should have made you a gentleman's wife Amanda, light of my life, fate should have made you a gentleman's wife
There's a measure of people that don't understand The pleasures of life in a hillbilly band I got my first guitar when I was sixteen Now I'm pushing (pulling) thirty and still wearing jeans
note: First heard this from Ringer and McCaslin, then again from Jody Stecher and various friends. Nice tune. JN