Metchosin, I think you and I are on the same page- unless I misunderstand you.

I do not understand you, however,daylia. It escapes me to understand in what way any marriage is threatened by another's union. Does someone else's love imperil your own?

I happen not to be lesbian (I say 'happen', because I tend to believe that in most cases it is an inborn drive) but there is no homosexual person in this world who is a threat to me - unless he or she comes at me with an instrument of destruction or harm. Mentally, emotionally, politically and socially, they are you and me.

(Amd yes. I do remember what you have written on the subject before. It's just that I do not in most any way that I can think of agree with you. Time to grow up already. And that's what I think of that.)

I'm also curious as to why you consider Canada "not any kind of democracy". Don't you vote? Are you not able to change your representative political parties?