(This post is from me... I'll verify it when I can get in the front door.)

BTW, regarding this overly simplistic and totally wrong statement by you (and the two completely irrelevant choices that accompany it), "By your continued crying, you're really only saying one of two things"...

Just because you haven't thought about some things in depth doesn't mean that other people haven't. Don't think for me and I won't tell you how wrong you are.