The Mudcat Café TM
Thread #82637 Message #1519607
Posted By: Bat Goddess
10-Jul-05 - 08:12 PM
Thread Name: Barry Finn in hospital (July-Aug 2005)
Subject: RE: Barry Finn in hospital
Oh, gawd, Justine . . .
I know it's not over yet, but the news is good.
Barry's got the easy part -- all he has to do is ride that elephant downhill.
You, on the other hand, are stuck with all the rest of getting on with life AND dealing with the worry, etc. of the love of your life being in the situation he's in.
Been there (last year with Curmudgeon), but you've got it a heck of a lot worse.
Seriously, take CARE of yourself. Keep cheese peanut butter crackers in the car for when you've forgotten to eat. Don't sweat an extra glass of wine before you sleep. (Make sure you sleep.)
It's taken me until a couple months ago to recover from last year. You're going to be fragile for awhile.
Let US do whatever we can -- and don't be afraid to ask.
We've got the white light focussed on Barry -- but I know I've got it focussed on you, too.
Much love sent your way.