John,

You said, "I've said that he should pay equally (supposing that sex was mutually consented) for any expenses incurred in the raising of the child. I'm not sure how much more I should be expected to want."


It takes a heck of a LOT more to raise a child than just money.

I like HarpGirl's line of thought, very much.

Further, until the time that a man can carry and give birth to a child, he should have NO SAY in the matter.

My body, my choice.

Michelle