Now for Critisizing Islam, Carol would have it that i am a 'hate-monger'

No, you are spreading hate by incorrectly and consistantly saying that "Islam is" anything at all. Because it is not. The only thing you can say about Islam as a whole is that it is a religion that has as many different levels of liberalism and fundamentalism, backwardness and forwardness as any other religion. Any other all inclusive discriptors you put on it are lies and they do promote hatred and ignorance.