If this is your only child then you are truly blessed. A friend of mine said to me 30 years ago: "That a couple, happy they maybe, live in a house. But a couple blessed with a child live in a home". I never forgot that. He was my parish priest who became the Arch Bishop of Nova Scotia. He is now retired and living in a home. We named are only child Aaron Burke. The Burke nane was in his honor.
When reading your thread I couldn't help thinking of a great American singer song writer who composed "Immigrant Eyes". Guy Clarke. If you haven't heard it then do yourself a big favour and get it.
Beer