I have an idea. We - everybody- is aware that this country is badly splintered, that there are factions that are poles apart.

There are groups in this country right now that are trying to find a common ground for both poles to come together. Until we reach that common ground we cannot see into each other's eyes.

So, let's try this:

* Do we agree that a parent's grief is a subjective thing and that no one else can actually know what the person's feelings are?

* Do we agree that at the end of the day (hate that phrase) each of us lives our lives being grateful for the love and satisfaction that comes to us through our families and friends and, since we are into music, the music in our lives?

* Do we agree that well meaning people may disagree in the perception of a problem and how to address that problem?

Any other ideas on the things that we can agree upon?