Grab - That makes you the kind of person that's good at geography! :)

Stu - It is certainly hard to reliquish bitterness, but though some threads may seem counterproductive to you and some others, I must say that they indeed have helped me see several issues in ways that I wouldn't have. Some have even helped me recognize some of my own biases and really confront that bitterness in order to let it go. So, while you may see them as counterproductive, at least for me they have been very helpful as well as educational.

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