ANother organization to which I belong says "If you don't want it, you can't have any." There seems a simple solution to thsoe who wish less BS. Virginia Satir said the same thing differently "what you feed, grows. What you don't feed withers and dies." As usual, other people have said this better than i could say it myself (which is why I am not a singer-songwriter & instead love the old time songs of Poole and the Carter Fam ETC)