Dear all,
Thank you for your suggestions. I DID look yesterday but was terrified by the furore!

Dear, kind guest, could you possible get in contact somehow? I don't think you can pm if you are a guest: pardon me if I am wrong. I will be at Skipton FC on 20th Sept if that is any good- is that your part of Yorkshire?

I have also made enquiries amongst you following up some suggestions.You know who you are!

I really am not up to making a maypole, I fear!   It was just abit of frivolity for a friend's wedding, and not to be taken too seriously.