Shambles, flower, you really need to get a life! You are either the luckiest person in the world, who has no greater problems than having some minor disputes with an internet net, or you are the most vindictive person I have ever come across.

Do you ever stop to think that the people who are trying to keep this site tidy have their own lives to lead? They are not 'employed', but are doing their best, in the face of whatever life may, or may not, happen to chuck at them (and which they may, or may not, care to share with this board). My own life has thrown the odd wideball at me and I have had to continue doing a very stressful and deadline led job, without, necessarily being able to share my homelife pressures (newspapers and magazines don't care about those things) - I have learned to remember, when dealing with people, that there might well be unseen reasons for things, which you just have to accept as that - you do NOT have the right to know everything - especially in a situation like this which is non-mandatory!