Thanks, Soph. Kat, I am saying precisely that if one is allowed to be rude then all ought to be allowed to be rude. If you don't like rude posters, don't be one of them. There are no rules here, and there are a few people who have the power of censorship which they don't use. (Daddy Max and Jobro) The only thing we have ownership in here in this forum are our words. I think we should use them carefully and with dignity. (After all, newbies drop by......) If you could be in the same room as me you could hear my tone of voice and facial expression, and you'd know I am affectionately yours, Margo