I just had my settee covered in a lovely dark chocolate leather, on its return the tradesman asked if I had lost the beautifully turned wooden "thingy" he found along with odd coins(mine) and other unmentionables under the upolstery. Is this a"tipper"? And anyone who has enjoyed one of our musical parties over the past 20 years who has lost the stick thing with which to play their Bodhran please contact me and I will return it!!