There's a wonderful song recorded by a Scottisdh Group called Ossian, not to be confused with the Irish Osin. I think it's called Stranger To Me, and it's all about the fact that when her man's back is turned, she doesn't care about him, bawdy? Just a bit, hope you find it. The widow and the devil is superbly dirty, what about The Jolly Beggarman( a la Planxty) it's only storytelling after all, no matter the sex and it has groovy harmonies for the chorus and The Wise Maid to follow is a crackin tune. Good Luck