Dear weelittledrummer I regret all loss of live, be it yours or ours if that doesn't sound to tribal.Yes you suffered and that was wrong. I imagine few took comfort from the statement the PIRA gave after the ceasefire that they regretted and apologized for all loss of life. It was all they could offer.Like Germany after World War Two the British people in time realised the taking of life was by a leadership and an army, not the man in the street. I hope in time you can understand the reasons why what we called a guerilla war was fought. Together with forgiveness we can all move on I hope.