Bra fitters at expensive department stores can be a GREAT help, and it's surprising how they pamper you without it being embarassing. (Purchasing is not required.) Once they fit you in the cut/type that's right for YOU, it's possible to find a similarly-framed one anywhere you shop. I know the energy to do that may be a factor, but once you've been fitted, you can steer through catalogs much more easily. And Laura's right-- I can still recall my step-daughter's delight when she was introduced to "pretty underwear." When it feels good and you know you're wearing it under your clothes, it can have quite an effect on your demeanor! Like a day at the bewdee parlor when you really NEED it.

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