Dear Teri
(can I call you that?)

look at it this way
buggered if I'm counting back 55

he thinks something happened
you don't

lifes like that sometimes
so is history - look at the kennedy assasination - nobody agrees with anything about that

whatever happened in the past, we have to be nice to each other in the future

either that or avoid those people whose vision of the world is unacceptable to you

you won't avoid these people on this sort of thread

take care mate!